Safe, saf(er), saf-ish

Last time, we introduced the general concept of a Safe space and acknowledged that no space is truly a safe space. As we understand this more profoundly, it becomes apparent that we cannot only focus on the outcome of a “universally safe space”.

The Queer* community is a leading force in furthering the questioning of what is a safe space by raising questions.

Who is the space safe for?

Who is the space by?

What dynamics are within the space?

Does the space function on (informed) consent?

And many more.

These questions will always be subjective, and so will the answers. The questions will also depend on what space it is and who is asking them. As we introduced in our previous blog, there is no one-size-fits-all regarding safety.

However, the process of creating a safe space can bring us closer to answers and better our understanding of the mechanics behind building a respectful space that is aware of its limits and strengths. All aspects of this process are essential. Depending on the demographic and goal audience, they are necessary at varying degrees, but the creation would be incomplete without them.

Many (not only) Queer* and Trans* spaces, have adopted a new language around this creation. We can now read about Saf(er) Spaces, Safe-ish Spaces, Saf-er Spaces and other variations of the Word Safe and the implication that it is incomplete. The use of this language signals to visitors that this space is willingly and openly engaging with a process of building and exploring how they can operate as safely as possible within the existing social structures.

At the heart of the concept of safer spaces is that the world is not a safe place for anyone, but it is more dangerous for others. Safer spaces aim to identify the ways this is cause and counter them with adopting policies and asking questions.

Some ways, these boundary-pushing spaces engage in this ongoing conversation are:

Actively cultivating empathy

Active Listening

Education & Awareness

Boundaries & Consent

Mental Health Support

Disability Liberation & Support

Issuing Trigger Warnings

Having a varied diet alternatives

No platforming

And many more.

These topics deserve their own article, so keep tuned to dive deeper into the individual aspects, as they are all crucial.

Safer spaces don’t have an answer or a straight pathway to safety. But it is valuable to keep the conversation open, fluid and ever-evolving. These spaces serve as a resource for the most marginalised. They are providing tools and equipment to navigate the hostility of the world surrounding them.

Next time, we will explore some of the tools that Safer Spaces adapt to open these conversations and the tools they can provide to the most marginalised.

Would you like to share your Safe/Saf(er) Space? Are you developing one? Get in touch!